We always face this question. “What gift should I get for
him/her?” This has a myriad answers. Each answer is correct and yet not
correct. To truly justify this question with an appropriate and fulfilling
answer it is necessary to understand the purpose a gift should serve. A gift
can be something that satisfies a need, something that brings pleasure or
something that serves as a reminder for the good times when surveyed upon in
the future. A gift can be considered to be a temporal marker of something good in
our life. A gift does not come alone. It brings with itself its own unique set
of emotions and memories. So the act of choosing a gift for someone is not to
be trifled with.
This leads us to where we started from i.e. what to gift
someone. In the present situation, in the current state of affairs one usually
goes with something that is truly materialistic viz a
card, an ornament etc. To be fair to these gifts they are actually pretty good
at serving their purpose. However, I beg to differ. For me the most valuable
thing that you can gift a person is your time. Few moments from your life that
you willingly choose to take from your carefully measured out life and share
with someone. A flower has life. An ornament has life. A card has life.
Everything decays except memory. Those precious moments that you spend with a
person never decay. Memory of those moments will not be touched by time. Also
this gift wouldn't leave you bereaved; this is a gift for both the intended
receiver and the donor. The memory stays with both the parties involved.
Consider also the value of time. In the present scene we are
most miserly with not money but with our time. We budget our time most. We are
excruciatingly finicky about the allocation of our time for someone. This
budgeting is for the people around us and the objects are exempt from it. This
reinforces the idea of “Time” being the most cherished gift.
Down the road it is not the objects we hold close to our
chests but such moments that define the relationship that we have with those
dear to us. Picture a death. Sad but necessary to showcase my point. What death
signifies is a severing of ties; a crushing end to all prospects/hopes of
spending time together. On each death and loss the biggest lament that
possesses us is that we didn’t get enough time together. This is not the case.
We have our time measured out in the ledger of life, it is upto us to credit
moments or money. The balance is ours to accumulate and ours to enjoy.
So the next time you have immersed yourself in work and
someone buzzes, take out time. Entertain them, indulge them.
Create a memory .